I’m going to let you in on a little secret. Aside from having the (obvious) nickname, Jenny, I have another, called Windy. My mom coined the name for me ages ago, saying I earned it from having a whimsical sense of being, always moving in the wind of life. So be it + I embrace it. We all need a bit of wind-like nature from time to time. Let yourself get lost to be free. Allow your gypsy soul to explore. Happy Tuesday, kids.

Get engaged. Engaged to yourself. What do you love? What turns you on? What is the thing that your brain cannot delete? It keeps you up at night in the best way possible, it makes you smile when you sit alone. Keep with it, kids. It is worth it. You are worth it. Love is all around. Engage yourself and you will engage with others.  xx, Jenny

Pay attention to the things that make you laugh.

That’s as unique as your own fingerprint.

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The Spotlight section of this blog is my personal favorite because it reveals the details and decisions of fascinating folks; the why and how they land on a yellow brick road of life. JBD is back with a bang, sitting down for a one-on-one with Suzanne McCormack, Coordinating Producer of television’s “The Big Bang Theory” and “Two and a Half Men.” This hip chick has sage advice. Read on to learn how Suzanne carved out her own niche and why taking a risk is well worth everything.

What was your first job out of college?

After college, I went to NYU to get my Master’s Degree in School Counseling. Although I found it fascinating, I realized upon graduation that I did not want to pursue it as a career. I knew working in TV was my dream job, but I didn’t really know how to get there. After about two months of asking myself what I wanted to do with my life, I went in for an interview with the CBS Page Program in New York City and was hired shortly after. My main responsibility was to greet guests of “The Early Show” (now “CBS This Morning”). I was at the bottom of the totem pole, had to be in at 5:30am and loved it! The position allowed me to meet some really cool actors and musicians, many of whom I quietly geeked out over. I could not believe this was my job!

You made the move from the Big Apple to the City of Angels.

While working at “The Early Show,” I realized my passion was for the entertainment side of television (vs. broadcast journalism). Knowing that the entertainment industry fuels Los Angeles, I hopped on a plane and moved to L.A., not knowing anyone when I landed. It was exciting and terrifying!

Tell us about your current gig, working alongside Chuck Lorre. 

This is my fifth season working for Chuck Lorre and I couldn’t be happier. I started as his assistant and then moved up to Coordinating Producer of “Two and a Half Men” and “The Big Bang Theory.”  In August 2008, I went to my very first table read of “Two and a Half Men” and had to pinch myself. This is where the actors read the script out loud for the first time and the writers make notes as to what works and what doesn’t. Necessary changes are made to the script and the cast will then perform the new draft at rehearsal the following day. I still get chills when I see the small tweaks and changes that make the episode that much funnier as we head into our tape night. We really do shoot the shows in front of a live studio audience. As for my current gig, a few months ago Chuck announced that he is expanding into a full production company so I’m finding my role as we go, all while staying on top of what’s going on with Chuck’s current shows. My position allows for a diverse day ranging from casting to coordinating production schedules to publicity and so on. There’s a lot of running around from the different stages and my office, which I’ve only recently learned how to do in heels.

Have you been to any of the award shows? Favorite memory? 

I’ve been very fortunate to attend The Emmys for the past two years and it’s been fun! Some of my closest friends work on “The Big Bang Theory,” so we get to go together. Experiencing it with them is the best part.

What advice can you give others looking to break into television production? 

Be willing to take any job offered, do any task assigned to you and work any hour of the day. Even if it’s not your first choice for a job, you will build contacts that could possibly parlay into the job you really want.

What advice would you give your 25 year old self? 

Get bangs.

What Los Angeles neighborhood do you call home? Any favorite go-to boutiques or cafes? 

West Hollywood! But New York will always hold a big piece of my heart. I am very fortunate that my parents and friends live within walking distance to my place. Yes, my parents moved out to L.A. two years after I did and yes, I am an only child. The New Yorker in me appreciates the great restaurants and bars I can get to on foot. Right now I’m loving Pace for dinner. The food is delicious!

Three things to do in LA? 

Gimlets at The Ivy in Santa Monica at sunset.

Soul Cycle. I don’t care what city you are in, if there is a Soul Cycle studio, take a class.

Drive up the Pacific Coast Highway and enjoy the view.

Best moment of living in Los Angeles?  

The day Chuck Lorre hired me to work for him.  It has changed my life for the better and I have grown so much, both personally and professionally.  I’ve also met some of my closest friends from working on the shows. They are amazing.

What inspires you?

First, my parents. They have an amazing work ethic, which I’d like to think I inherited. They are wonderful and I am so grateful for them. I would also be remiss if I didn’t mention how inspiring it is to work with someone as brilliant as Chuck Lorre. I feel incredibly fortunate to learn from him every day.

Three favorite brands or stores for daily wear?  

Ooh, this is tough! Rachel Zoe makes a flare leg pant like no other.  I’m obsessed. Joie has the best flowy shirts for a romantic look. Theory is giving me brilliant work options like blazers, dresses and camis.

What will never go out of style?

Class!

Image Credits: 1. Courtesy of Suzanne McCormack 2. IMDB 3. CBS 4. Courtesy of Suzanne McCormack

Note: This interview has been condensed and edited.

My Grandmother and I exchanged a massive collection of correspondence, over a span of ten years. I have a habit of slipping notes into favorite books, so when I go back to read those books I find the memory, weeks or months or years later. The other day, a book fell off of the shelf and a note popped out onto the floor. It’s a post card I sent to my Grandma over thirteen years ago while I was staying in Paris. I love everything about it in this moment.

You are not born a woman; you become one.

– Simone de Beauvoir 

Troy Dyer. Remember him? You know, the only real thing Lelaina had. The man-child who professed: “There’s no point to any of this. It’s all just a random lottery of meaningless tragedy and a series of near escapes. So I take pleasure in the details. You know, a Quarter-Pounder with cheese, those are good, the sky about ten minutes before it starts to rain, the moment where your laughter becomes a cackle…and I, I sit back and I smoke my Camel Straights and I ride my own melt.”

Ethan as Troy (and in general) is still sexy as ever, but I let out audible laughs upon recollection of just how much I watched a VHS tape to hear his voice cover Violent Femmes songs in a band called Hey, That’s My Bike! Sweet goodness, I fell for a hipster before hipsters existed. Whether or not we single out out-laws in the wild west of dating or not, Troy, Lelaina and their crew knew how to hang out and have a great time. Ah, life. Isn’t it fun? Does reality really bite? I don’t think so, not one bit. Stick to your sharona, you’ll be alright.

Sometimes, even when blogging about beautiful things, a gal can have a rough day. My mind’s eye reminds me that everyone is fighting some kind of battle, but there are days when one’s own battle is at the frontal lobe. Know that it is okay to sit and be with it. See it through. There is gold in that process. And, while you may have the bestest of friends, a stellar mom or a circle of siblings who rock more than a marshall stack, the remedied words in a call or an email from a father can immediately lighten a daughter’s dark moment. As I sat down to create today’s blog post, I happened upon Kindling Quarterly, a new Brooklyn-based publication which explores contemporary fatherhood. Essays, photography, art, editorials and interviews come together to highlight creative individuals whose work and lives are inseparable from their role as a parent. While the subjects of their stories are fathers, anyone interested in creativity and community will enjoy this slice of life.

Image Credit via Kindling Quarterly

Hit me with a hot note and watch me bounce

Knock me out with music in great amounts

– Lyrics By Don George, Music By Duke Ellington

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You must live in the present, launch yourself on every wave, find your eternity in each moment. 

– Henry David Thoreau

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